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The Projection Parent: When Love Becomes the Blind Spot

Darrell Hay

Published on: 27/06/2026

Youth hockey parents want the best, but love can create blind spots. Learn how “Projection Parents” impact development and how to support players the right way.

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The Don-damentals: Back to Hay-sics

Darrell Hay

Published on: 12/06/2026

A Father’s Day reflection on the fundamentals of hockey, the lessons that last, and the voice that still guides every rep.

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Clarity Is Kindness: When Expectations Don’t Match Reality

Darrell Hay

Published on: 02/06/2026

In youth hockey, expectations don’t always match reality. Learn how clear standards, long-term development, and proper alignment help players grow with confidence and purpose.

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Did You Vacuum Under the Couch? The First Coach I Ever Had Didn’t Wear Skates

Darrell Hay

Published on: 07/05/2026

A Mother’s Day tribute to the woman who taught me that details matter, standards start at home, and yes—you always vacuum under the couch.

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