The Projection Parent: When Love Becomes the Blind Spot

The Projection Parent: When Love Becomes the Blind Spot

Darrell Hay
Published on: 27/06/2026

Youth hockey parents want the best, but love can create blind spots. Learn how “Projection Parents” impact development and how to support players the right way.

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 From Marleau to Bedard: How the NHL Got Younger

From Marleau to Bedard: How the NHL Got Younger

Darrell Hay
Published on: 23/06/2026

A 30-year perspective on how skill development, the salary cap, and game speed compressed the path from draft night to NHL impact.

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Did You Vacuum Under the Couch?  The First Coach I Ever Had Didn’t Wear Skates

Did You Vacuum Under the Couch? The First Coach I Ever Had Didn’t Wear Skates

Darrell Hay
Published on: 07/05/2026

A Mother’s Day tribute to the woman who taught me that details matter, standards start at home, and yes—you always vacuum under the couch.

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More Than a Hard Hat: Why Hockey’s Best Post-Game Awards Tell You Everything About a Team

More Than a Hard Hat: Why Hockey’s Best Post-Game Awards Tell You Everything About a Team

Darrell Hay
Published on: 01/05/2026

Post-game awards in hockey are more than just funny locker room traditions—they are symbols of culture, leadership, and respect.

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