The Player In The Arena

Darrell Hay

Published on: 23/07/2026

A reflection on Theodore Roosevelt's famous Man in the Arena speech and the lessons competition, leadership, parenting, and sport teach us about courage, humility, growth, and perspective.

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The 22 Hour Rule: Why Parents Shape Player Development More Than Coaches

Darrell Hay

Published on: 26/04/2026

Coaches get players for two hours a day. The other 22 shape mindset, accountability, communication, and growth. Great development starts at home.

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